AM I ALONE? HAVE YOU EVER FELT STUCK? AS IF THERE IS NO UP OR DOWN BUT JUST HERE AND NOW AND THINGS WILL NEVER CHANGE BECAUSE THIS IS YOUR LIFE!! HAVE YOU? PLEASE TELL ME, I’M NOT ALONE… TELL ME YOU’VE BEEN HERE TOO!
Up to this point, I haven’t come out and spoken to you. But now I am. Sometimes when I speak I feel it’s too much for one individual to take in so if you feel this is too heavy or hard for you to read please close the browser or move on to another blog. Continue on with your day as if you never seen this BUT if you’ve been here, felt this way – please leave me a comment and give me some light because right now I’m reaching, stretching out my hand to say “GOD, HELP ME!” and I feel stuck!
I’ve been stagnant too long and I keep holding on waiting for better days, keeping my faith and praying and begging and praying and begging for a change and then I wake up and I’m in the same place with the same people with the same bills and the same stress and the same loneliness. With no one to help me and I feel stuck. Stuck, stuck, just stuck!
I feel like I can’t really talk to anyone because it’s too much for them to hear, too much for them to bear, too much for them because I’m right here, just too near. So I walk through my days, trying not to feel depressed, trying not to cry, trying not to argue, trying not to blow up with my emotions because I’m trying to remain positive and strong and keep my faith. But tonight, tonight I feel I lost the battle. Tonight the tears are too near, wanting to fall from no where, no real reason, no specific thing except…
FRUSTRATION, UNHAPPINESS, BITTERNESS, RESENTMENT, LONELINESS, FINANCIAL HARDSHIP…
And even as I write this I feel ungrateful, like I’m focused on all the wrong things but right now I can’t see any positives, I don’t see any pluses, I don’t see any movements, I don’t see any progress, I don’t see any light!
I do have positives though: I have a roof over my head, I have food in my fridge, I have a part time job, I have a vehicle, I have my kids! But I’m stagnant. I’ve had these things for the last 10 years. Will I be here forever? Will I never progress? Will I never be fulfilled? Will I never surpass the exceptions of my poverty based off of my skin and my upbringing? Will I follow in my mom’s footsteps and only know struggles? Will I forever be financially strapped even though I have made my goal of saving 5,000 dollars? Whats the point of saving when you have bill collectors still calling?
I feel stuck! I don’t want to be stuck so how can I change it? Because a wise man once told me, if you don’t like your circumstances, the only way to fix it is for YOU to change it? So where do I begin? Well I’m starting here, at my blog, something I’ve been pouring my heart into over the past year. Please tell me I’m not alone, that you’ve experienced this feeling and there is light at the end of the tunnel? Oh yes, let me let you know what has caused this panic… I’m pregnant again with baby number 5 and I have no financial support…. I’m scared I won’t be able to provide and not have my kids follow the history of poverty if I don’t make a change and make it soon….
So please tell me, I’m not stuck…. Major blessings is coming my way, just gotta keep faith…. PLEASE
God Willing….